This write-up is a direct repeat of the podcast audio for those who prefer to read. Whether you choose to listen or read, the content is the same—so go with what works best for you!
Hey, Hey!
Bear with me for a second—this is going somewhere, I promise. Or, as the kids say—let me cook! 😆
Recently, I asked a question in our Facebook group (if you’re not in there yet, come join us!) about struggles around family reading. One thing stood out loud and clear: guilt. Guilt about not reading enough.
And I get it. We all know reading is good for our kids. But when life gets busy, it’s easy to feel like we’re falling short.
Here’s the truth: Literacy alone doesn’t feel like enough of a motivator—especially when our kids are in school, reading all day. In text books… all day. Writing… all day.
What if I told you that reading with your kids is about so much more than just literacy?
Why This Matters
I’m heading onto a podcast soon to talk about Reading To Connect. They want me to share my ENGAGE Method, how I came to this work, and literacy.
But here’s the thing: talking about literacy alone doesn’t light me up.
Of course, literacy is important! It’s foundational. And everything I teach supports literacy development in a big way. But my passion lies in helping parents see the magic of books—the way they create a bond with our kids that lasts a lifetime.
It’s Like Drinking Water
In 2025, I’ve decided to focus on drinking more water. Sure, hydration is important—but the real reason? I’ve been struggling with brain fog and low energy, and I know drinking more water will help me feel clearer, more focused, and better able to show up in all the spaces that require my full attention.
But water doesn’t stop there.
It improves digestion, clears skin, supports overall health, and—yes—might even help me grow stronger, healthier hair (the dream of waist-length hair is real, though it might take a lifetime 😅).
And this is exactly how I see reading with our kids.
Yes, it improves literacy—just like water hydrates. But the real magic lies beneath the surface.
The Real Reasons We Read
You don’t read to your kids just so they can do better in school. You read to them because:
You want to feel closer to them.
You want to create a safe space where they know they’re loved and supported.
You want to build a legacy of shared stories, values, and connection.
That’s the lifelong benefit—a bond that stays with them as they grow.
Books become the tools that help us spark those moments. Tools beautifully crafted by their creators to foster connection, conversation, and understanding.
No Perfection Required
The next time you feel guilty about not reading enough, remember this: It’s not about perfection. It’s about creating opportunities for connection. A lifetime of connection.
That’s the magic of reading together.
And if you’d love to explore more about this, join us in the Facebook group! It’s a space for parents to share, connect, and learn how to make the most of these moments with our kids.
My best,
Quinn 📚💕
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